Phew..i'm back to the same old Dylan again..erm..maybe not.i juz can't remember who i am..well who cares..as long as its for the better good..i dun mind the change...today..i found out wat i reli want in life...not fame nor money nor good result...well maybe a a little of those but wat matters most is the smiles of people around me..my friens and family and even those i dun noe...I'm happie when i see ppl smile..so ya..I'll keep doin wat i like best..Putting smiles on ppl's faces and hopefully someone would put one on me too...lolz..=P

Life is great..=)

I dun noe who i am anymore....help.... = (

WE face lots of probs in life...dun we..? people change when they face probs...some may cry..some may get angry...some may get depressed, stressed, upset..some may even laugh. Anyway, its normal...No one's perfect...we all face probs...Ur not alone...But hey..Its all this probs and troubles that make life this interesting...we would hav died of boredom long time ago if probs didn't exist...so SMILE when you face probs...cuz u noe that its a blessing from god to let you be wat u really wanna be....There's this metaphore...Bodybuilders dun get their muscles instantly...they got them by going to gym and undergo strenous tranings for years...Understand wat i wanna say now? =) 

SO....NEXT TIME WHEN  U FACE A PROBLEM...SMILE..BE HAPPIE...TREAT IT AS A CHALLENGE AND NOT A PROB..REMEMBER..=)

My life was boring

and U dun wanna noe how BORing it can be at times..

My life was sad

SAD SAD SAD...

All this changed

When i got to know u

U lightened up my day...

It was fun gettting to argue with u

Though it can be really tiring at times

But still..it really made my day

Reading your blog..

made me feel that miri isn't a boring place after all

It really amazes me how u are able to find joy and laughter in Everything u do...well maybe not everything...

hmmp..I really admire u...

there's very few people whom i admire..so UR reli lucky to be one XP

anyway...thanks for being such a frien..=)

p.s. happie now..? now that ur in my blog...=P

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.

Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.

The man in the other bed began to live for those one-hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.

The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.

As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man couldn't hear the band - he could see it. In his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.

Days and weeks passed.

One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away.

As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed.

It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.

The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you."

Epilogue:
There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations.
Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled.
If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy.
Today is a gift, that's why it is called the present.
 

One day an old man was walking along the beach in the early morning and noticed the tide had washed thousands of starfish up on the shore. Up ahead in the distance he spotted a boy who appeared to be gathering up the starfish and one by one tossing them back into the ocean.

He approached the boy and asked him why he spent so much energy doing what seemed to be a waste of time.

The boy replied, "If these starfish are left out here like this they will bake in the sun, and by this afternoon they will all be dead."

The old man gazed out as far as he could see and responded, "But, there must be hundreds of miles of beach and thousands of starfish. You can't possibly rescue all of them. What difference is throwing a few back going to make anyway?"

The boy then held up the starfish he had in his hand and replied, "It's sure going to make a lot of difference to this one!"

People hate and resent change because of the unknown variables it brings.  This is but normal because life is indeed full of uncertainties; and this continuously haunts man even after death.

First and foremost it is not the unknown,
uncertainty, and unfamiliarity which serve as
deterrents to change; its fear.

“Life’s battle don’t always go to the
fastest nor to the strongest man who
ever lived, but he who wins
is he who believes he can.”

Too Much Buying of "What If"s" Syndrome

What if the new could prove you wrong?
What if you fail, what will people say?
What If others succeed, would you rather stay?
What if it is not good for you?
What if it is not meant for you?
What if it even turns out worst?

Let not fear make you sponsor it.

Everything in life is worth the experience.  Henceforth, everything is worth trying.  Be positive about life.  Develop the habit of keeping a positive mental attitude at all times.  One of the most effective techniques which will neutralize your negative attitude is complete surrender. This means that while you are aware of unfavorable effects of your action, you will accept them as good.  Remember that events in your life happen for the best.  Nothing happens by coincidence.  It happens on purpose. 

Be PROCESS-ORIENTED, not RESULT ORIENTED..

Life is a gift..enjoy it...=)

the night is darkest before dawn...hopefully

Here I sit, alone in my room

in the dark thinking of you.

my heart full of sadness,

my eyes full of tears,

wishing that you could be right here.

U meant the world for me

Though u might never know.

I was once lost

Till i met u.

Though we never could really talk

My love for u will never fade

Tired and Confused

I have something to ask u

Do u love me?

watched kungfu panda juz 10 minutes ago...there was a part in the story where i actually cried. Po realised that there's actually no secret ingredient in becoming who he wanted so badly to be.....If u think that ur special, u are...i have always believed that life is wat u think it is......EVERYONE can do or be wat they wanna be...all u need to do is to believe.....=)

remember.....u juz have to start believing...........

celebrated my birthday yesterday..yes 19 june..my birthday..lol..it was different from my other birthdays..no birthday cake..prezzie...haiz~ in uni mah...but still..i felt that it was the happiest birthday so far...one of my frien, shin yng actually came into my room at 12 just to wish me happie birthday...she's just so darn cute and lovable..ha ha..well..i felt that it was the best gift ever...sooo full of sincerity and smiles....^^ Anyway...ha ha...i come to realise that there's nothin happier than having true friendship :P Oh ya..i forgot to wish myself happy birthday..HAPPIIEE BELATED BIRTHDAAY dylan!!! LOL...ahhaha >.<

when u think that life is hopeless..think again..call me if u want..i'll tell u...

i RAN today....XP